Oh, and while I’m being oblique…
It’s fine and all to hope for your true love, or your soul mate, or your other half. More power to you if you manage to find them. But I most sincerely hope you don’t forget, as I did, that if you betray them, it will hurt you worse than you can imagine. Even if it was completely unintentionally. Worse than being burned, or cut, or pierced. Worse than being poisoned, or starving to death. Worse than Hell.
Jury’s still out on whether or not it’s worth it, but I’m still leaning towards worth it. Food for thought, I guess.